When it comes to our personality, some people believe that it’s “set in stone.” What this means is that we’re born with a certain personality and over the course of our lives, most of us don’t really change that much. That doesn’t mean we don’t grow or learn new things. It typically means that we react to things the same way as we did early in life. One of my favorite authors once said in a book, “None of us really changes over time. We only become more fully what we are.” To an extent, I think this is true, but I like to leave room for growth. Anyone has the capability to change if they really work hard at it.
If our personalities are set in stone, can we learn something about our personality based on the stones that we find appealing? Maybe. Take a moment to look at the image below and decide which one appeals most to you. Don’t try to choose just by your favorite color, which is what most people do at first. Look at the overall stone and examine its texture, the lines or spots it has, the different shades and tones it presents, and other factors. Once you decide which one your favorite is, scroll down past the image to find out what your stone choice signifies about your personality and your unique traits.
Stone 1: Opalite
Opalite is a stone that is energetic but subtle and it’s often used for meditation. This stone provides an access point for communication and it frees you from the busy things in life. If this was your stone, you may feel like you need to disconnect sometimes to find some peace and quiet. You like to be alone with your inner thoughts and you’ve weathered the storms that life has thrown your way. You’ve got scars from past battles, but you don’t show these on your surface.
Stone 2: Malachite
Malachite is about nature’s healing features and it represents the inner beauty of everything from flowers and trees to roots and plants. This stone is associated with inner growth and transformation. If you chose malachite, there may be a major change on your horizon and some of the changes will be interior as well as exterior. Now’s a good time to think about your past choices and those you’re considering for the future. You may have a hard time being around anything negative and you don’t stay for long with someone if they’re negative. Make sure you’re not spreading yourself too thin and step back when you need to.
Stone 3: Sunstone
The sunstone is all about abundance and its focus is on independence and originality. People often use the sunstone when they’re in a competition because it can bring success. The sunstone is often associated with prosperity, fame, and even talent. If you love the sunstone, you’re probably an optimist and you have a bright future ahead of you. Try not to lose your sunny disposition as you go through your life. Maintain a simple lifestyle so that stress doesn’t weigh you down.
Stone 4: Obsidian
If you chose obsidian, you are all about strength and sticking by your convictions. Be sure you’re grateful for the good things that come your way and avoid jealous tendencies that may arise sometimes. If you’re not a perfectionist, you may find yourself disappointed in yourself and others, but it’s OK to understand that you’re good enough. It’s OK to strive for excellence, but don’t overdo it and zap your joy.
Stone 5: Howlite
Howlite is a stone people use to meditate. It can help you focus and give you peace and serenity. When you find yourself feeling distracted, howlite will help you center. It has a calming ability and will help you to decrease stress and anxiety. If you’re a dreamer, you may find yourself imagining how things could have been rather than focusing on what’s right in front of you. Try to practice mindfulness and be present. Remember that you can change if you put your mind to it.
Stone 6: Dalmatian Jasper
This stone focuses on harmonizing your emotions and maintaining composure in life. When things are difficult, it’s possible to refocus and regain peace that you desire. If you chose this stone, you’re ready to make a change in your life and be informed with possibilities. You’re probably a person who loves to have fun and be playful.
