The human eye is an amazing piece of creative genius. It is also the method that our brain uses to get information about the world around us more than any other of our senses. In fact, the vast majority of the human brain is completely engineered for the sense of sight. That being said, we sometimes use our eyes in the wrong way by judging others by what we see. It is a simple matter of judging a book by its cover but, as you see in the following fictional story, it can be more than a simple matter, indeed.
After work I went to the store to pick up a few things. While checking out, the cashier, looked at my name tag and said, “So what do you do there?”
I replied, “I’m a nurse.”
She continued, “I’m surprised they let you work there like that. What do your patients think about your hair?”
She then proceeded to ask the elderly lady that was in line behind me, “What do you think about her hair?”
The kind older lady said, “Nothing against you honey, it’s just not for me.”
Then the cashier continued to comment that they didn’t allow that sort of thing even when she worked fast food and that she was shocked that a nursing facility would allow that.
Well, here’s my thoughts. I can’t recall a time that my hair color has prevented me from providing life-saving treatment to one of my patients. My tattoos have never kept them from holding my hand and as they lay frightened and crying because Alzheimer’s has stolen their mind. My multiple ear piercings have never interfered with me hearing them reminisce about their better days or listening to them as they express their last wishes. My tongue piercing has never kept me from speaking words of encouragement to a newly diagnosed patient or from comforting a family that is grieving.
So, please explain to me how my appearance, while being paired with my cheerful disposition, servant’s heart, and smiling face, has made me unfit to provide nursing care and unable to do my job!
