What do you do when you see homeless people on the street? Do you look them in the eye and smile and nod? If you do, that’s more than most people do. The tendency that many folks have is to simply act as if these people don’t exist. These are human beings and if you see a family of homeless people, it’s especially heartbreaking for some reason. In the United States, one in ever 588 people is homeless, and on most nights, approximately 190,000 people will sleep on the streets, according to Backpackbed.org. Out of all the homeless people on the streets, 33% are homeless families with children. Here’s a very troubling statistic: 7% of homeless people are veterans. How is it that the most vulnerable and at the same time the most courageous in our society are living on the streets? It’s a question that has to be constantly addressed until something is done about it. We don’t know if the story below is true, but it needs to be passed along to everyone in America.
Just experienced something that shook me to the core, and I can’t explain why but it did, as I’m known to the people that know me for being a semi life-hardened kind of guy. I’ve seen homeless people many times in my life, but never a couple with a child. Most of the time in San Francisco it’s easy to walk by as you can tell they’re drug addicts or just plain scammers with signs at intersections. This time was different. Much different. Life-Changing Different.
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On my way to the San Bruno Post Office Just outside of San Francisco to mail off some eBay boxes, I saw this couple just sitting in the corner of the lot, not begging or panhandling but just looking over their belongings as a boy who appeared to be about four years old came running around the corner right into me falling on the floor.
The mother came over and apologized and I noticed how dirty she was and could tell she had been on the streets for at least a couple of weeks. She looked to be mid-twenties. In a typical mother fashion, she pulled him along telling him to watch out and be careful.
The whole time I was in line at the Post Office I really wasn’t there mentally as I was trying to find any other logical explanation other than a 4-year-old being a homeless kid. I just couldn’t comprehend it.
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On the way out I made a beeline straight to my car in a hurry looking down at the parking lot the whole way out. As I backed out I couldn’t help it, I threw it back into park and walked over to them.
Found out the guy was a 27-year-old former combat Marine that had served four tours and had been out 2 years. He had lost his job a few months ago working at a warehouse. He jokingly said, but it was absolutely factual when he stated that “Unemployment insurance makes you a well funded homeless person in Cali.”
Neither one had any family that could or would help.
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He’s right, $700 a month really won’t do a whole lot for you in California. He said he tried to re-enlist but the Marines aren’t exactly hiring right now and are actually pushing people out. He wasn’t a poser as any of you Vets know it’s easy to spot. You can just tell.
When I tried to give them the last $10.00 in my pocket he wouldn’t take it but said if I wanted to help him out I could walk with him inside the Safeway so he could get his kid some juice. Every time he goes in there the managers run him out as his family had camped out behind the store a few times. He said he guessed a homeless family was bad for business as he said he never once did anything wrong in there except using the restroom too many times he guessed.
I took them down to Safeway and went inside with him. He paid for the juice and few groceries with a Wells Fargo debit card so I know he wasn’t lying about the source of a small income. Apparently he was indeed known to the crew at Safeway as the cashier told him he better hurry before he was spotted in there. I told her I was with him and she just smiled.
Getting back to the car the little boy was asleep. He woke them up and got their stroller out of the car with their backpacks. He extended his hand and said thanks, Sir, I appreciate the kindness and if you know of anyone looking for a hard worker let me know.
I told him I lived not far away and my wife and I wouldn’t mind if they cleaned up and took a hot shower. He declined and explained if you’re clean on the streets you’re a target as other homeless can sense when you have two cents more than them. Apparently you’re a target also if you appear homeless at Safeway.
Feeling totally helpless to help them I said: “What are you going to do son?”
I’m not ashamed to admit my eyes teared up when he said: “Improvise, Overcome and Adapt Sir, Semper Fi.”
I just stood there frozen in disbelief, anger, and sadness as I watched them cross the street and fade into San Bruno National Cemetery.
I’ll never forget this as long as I live. This definitely isn’t the same United States of America I grew up in. What in the hell has happened to this country?
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